The Beginning of ME!!!!

I was born in July of 1986, and from the very beginning I think my life was destin . to be full of chaos and adventure. Like most people my parents was never married. I am not even sure if they was ever in a relationship or if they was just good friends. my father had taken on responsability of my older sister the day she was born. and out of that relationship I was made. My parents never got along. My dad was an alcoholic and my mother was a whore. I am not saying to to call names but that is just how it is. 

When I was 14 months old my mother broke both my hips and then took me to the emergency room where she then abandoned me, my sister and my younger brother. She left us for this charming champ (being sarcastic) named Harry and all the coke he could give her… Do not go and feel sorry for me I never have. After that day me and my sister was raised by opposite grandparents. I by my father’s parents and sister and my sister by our mother’s parents. Our baby brother was adopted by his father’s parents and we never seen him again until we looked for him after he turned 18. Thankfully we all had amazing grandparents. Well for the most part . 

We were being raised by a different generation. It was hard growing up knowing that all of yours friend had mom’s and dad’s. When friends would ask why do you live with your grandparents I would always say because they love me. What was I to say to them “the truth”, witch at the time was embarrising to me. I did not realize until later in life that being raised by my grand parents and aunt was a blessing.

 

 

 

 

WELCOME !!!!

Welcome to my page. I hope that you enjoy reading the daily life of a mom, wife, chef and a person… Sometime things are good and sometimes things are bad, but that is to be expected. My son who is 14 is a football player, and has been playing since he was 4 years old. He is the jock of the family and the sweetest most loving child ever until he became a big pile of raging hormones !!!! My daughter is 17 and a senior. She is very smart and does not mind letting you know that she is. Currently she is doing theater out side of doing her school functions. Again Theater and she is in the All state women’s chorus. My husband just turned 50. He has Palindromic Arthritis and rheumatism. So life is a little hard for him.. Before he had this he was a brick mason and before that he was a DJ in South Carolina at a few strip clubs… yeah you was  not expecting to hear that!!
Now as for my self I am a chef at a small town local diner. I am from Tennessee so I am southern as can be… Don’t let that deter you I will bless you heart as I tell you my full opinion. My mouth has no filter if you don’t want to know what I think then you had better not ask.

Let me tell ya if you think this blog is going to be boring you are sorely mistaken. I have more juicy gossip than a Georgia Peach!!!!

NOW that you know a little about me and the family buckle up and hang on because not only will you get the full force of this crazy and wonderful life, I will also make this blog informing. I will talk about the process of how we discovered my husband has RA and the face that what he has is so rare, I will at times share recipes and tips. I will share how I balance all of this with out loosing my mind.

I started this blog because my head is full and sometimes I forget who I am in all of this.

I thought that mabe other people out there that is going threw this wild life like I am would like to read this laugh, cry, and find a piece of them selves in these stories and know that you are not alone. Nobody may read this and that is okay. BUT at the end of the day I know that I have a place I can go and be the full honest me ….